It’s not every time you wait for your partner to make the first move.

Instead of waiting for your man to start sex, take the initiative on occasion.

Not only has it been said that the average male thinks about sex at least once a day, but men have also been known to initiate sex twice as often as women!

Also, many women are uncomfortable initiating sex because of social conditioning that has caused them to believe that being the sexual aggressor makes them a “slut” or “whore,” and initiating sex is a source of shame and humiliation for persons with such a mindset.

Because of these factors, it seems only reasonable that men should always initiate sex and start every happy hour.

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Women in partnerships and marriages, on the other hand, cannot afford to think like this.

To save their lives, some women are unable to initiate intercourse. To save their lives, some women are unable to initiate intercourse.

Letting your man initiate sex all the time, and refusing to take the lead is not good enough. You need to learn to take the bull by the horn. And this is not something to begrudgingly do occasionally or once in a blue moon.

You have to become comfortable enough to do this as many times as possible.

One reason for this is that while men have no qualms making the moves on you for sex, it gets to a stage where they can’t decipher if you really want to do it, or if you are just doing it because they want to do it.

And it’s possible that this will put a damper on the sexual chemistry in that marriage or relationship. Sex is more enjoyable when both partners are certain that what the other wants at the time is what the other wants.

You should know how to start sex with your spouse if you desire a relationship that isn’t sexually one-sided. You should know how to start sex with your spouse if you desire a relationship that isn’t sexually one-sided.

Secondly, men also want to feel wanted. It is mind-blowing for many when they are chased and openly desired.

So, when you leave sexy messages on the bathroom mirror about what awaits him in the bedroom later at night and actually make the move on him, it does a lot of good for that sex life of that relationship.

Again, covertly/actively asking for sex from your partner is good for his ego and the overall happiness in that relationship or marriage.

While every woman is meant to know this, it is more important for women in relationships and marriages as it could be the difference between having a healthy sexual life and having one that’s lukewarm and boring.

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